Articles by Valerie Tsang

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Emotional Regulation
Relationships
Perspective-Taking During Emotionally Charged Conflict

When emotions run high, it becomes much harder to consider that another person may have experienced the same situation differently. This article explores how emotional reactions shape our interpretations during conflict, why we often become attached to our first understanding of events, and how perspective-taking can help us approach difficult conversations with greater openness and flexibility.

Valerie Tsang
Jun 1, 2026
8
min read
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General
Growing Your Capacity for Flexible and Open-Minded Thinking

This blog explores what open-mindedness looks like in daily life and why black-and-white thinking can feel comforting, even when it limits our perspective. It introduces common cognitive biases (like confirmation bias and false consensus bias) that naturally narrow our thinking, then offers three gentle, reflective exercises to help readers build more flexibility: exploring outside their usual frame, recognizing that beliefs evolve over time, and noticing the middle ground between extremes.

Valerie Tsang
May 26, 2026
8
min read
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Focus
General
Why It’s So Easy to Feel Like You’re Learning When You’re Not

Most of us have felt confident after reading something — only to find the information wasn't really there when we needed it. This article explores why familiarity can block us from deep understanding, how confidence can mislead us early in the learning process, and why struggling with new material is often a sign that deeper learning is happening. Includes practical strategies for retaining information more effectively over time.

Valerie Tsang
May 21, 2026
8
min read
Self-care
When Your Routine Changes and Sleep Feels Off

Changes in routine, environment, or schedule can disrupt sleep because the body relies heavily on familiar cues and predictable patterns to feel settled enough for rest. This blog explores how circadian rhythms, environmental changes, and nervous system vigilance affect sleep, especially when traveling or sleeping somewhere new. Readers will also learn practical ways to support sleep gently through familiarity, reduced pressure, and small adjustments that help the body adapt over time.

Valerie Tsang
May 12, 2026
10
min read
Motivation
Confidence
Self-care
The Fresh Start Effect and Reaching Your Goals

Fresh starts can be a powerful tool for rebuilding motivation, especially after setbacks or periods of feeling stuck. This blog explores when a reset can help, when it may interrupt positive momentum, and how simple progress tracking can support long-term goals. Readers will learn practical strategies for maintaining consistency, creating manageable restarts, and approaching motivation with more flexibility and self-compassion.

Valerie Tsang
May 12, 2026
5
min read
Emotions
Connection
Self-care
Making Space for Positivity in Everyday Life Without Ignoring Reality

Positive moments happen more often than we notice, but they can fade quickly when attention shifts, emotions are suppressed, or experiences are overanalyzed. Drawing on psychological research, including the broaden-and-build theory and emotion regulation frameworks, this article explores how everyday habits can reduce or strengthen the impact of positive experiences. Rather than promoting forced positivity, it focuses on realistic, practical ways to stay present with moments of connection, enjoyment, and relief.

Valerie Tsang
Apr 23, 2026
10
min read