Occasional uneasiness or nervousness in social situations is a common human experience. People struggling with social anxiety disorder, also known as social phobia, can experience intense anxiety resulting in negative thoughts related to excessive fear of judgement and physical anxiety symptoms such as sweating or trembling [1]. This article provides information on the impacts of social anxiety, strategies for coping, and considerations for pursuing a diagnosis.
What is social anxiety disorder?
Social Anxiety differs from shyness or feelings of uneasiness about a situation. Social anxiety disorder is a mental health condition characterized by an overwhelming fear of social situations, leading to persistent avoidance [2]. The fear and anxiety of the situation is generally disproportionate to the actual threat [1]. Experiences of ongoing anxiety and continuous avoidance significantly impact a person's daily life, relationships, and overall well-being [3].
What are the signs and symptoms of social anxiety?
Social anxiety can often be experienced as viewing the world through a lens which emphasizes negative self-judgement. People with social anxiety disorder experience constant worry about how others may evaluate them [2].
Social anxiety can deeply impact various aspects of life, such as:
- Avoidance leading and contributing to isolation: Avoiding (or attempting to avoid) social settings due to the fear of feeling anxious, or of embarrassing or humiliating interactions can lead to isolation and loneliness. In children, attempts at avoidance can manifest as crying, freezing, or behavioural responses.
- Challenges within and forming relationships: Difficulty opening up to others, as well as avoidance can lead to relationship challenges and misunderstandings.
- Difficulty with daily activities and interactions: Difficulty with routine interactions such as making phone calls, attending an appointment, or visiting a shop is common.
- Work or school challenges related to social interactions: According to the DSM-5, those with social anxiety disorder have a higher school dropout rate and more difficulty with work productivity. Avoidance can also lead to missing work or school.
- Low self-esteem and the ensuing emotional toll: Placing value on the perceived evaluation of others versus one’s own balanced self-examination occurs. People with social anxiety disorder have lower levels of self-compassion, which means they have difficulty showing kindness towards themselves [4].
- Physical symptoms during social situations: A racing heart, sweating, trembling, blushing or nausea often appear before or during social situations.
- Persistent fear of judgement: Recurring, intrusive worries that others are negatively judging you which can linger and pull focus.
What causes social anxiety?
There is no single cause for social anxiety and everyone's experience is different. Most research suggests that there is a combination of biological, genetic and environmental factors which work together, including:
- Genetics and family history. Social anxiety often runs in families, and having a close relative with a history of anxiety increases the likelihood of developing it.
- Historical experiences. Having past experiences with negative social interactions such as bullying, humiliation, or embarrassment can increase the chances [5] of social anxiety.
- Disposition and temperament. Some research has shown that early signs of behavioural inhibition, such as the tendency to be withdrawn or hesitant in unfamiliar social situations, in children, can be linked with a higher chance of developing social anxiety [6].
- Neurobiology. There is evidence that differences exist in how the brain’s fear-response systems react to social situations which may play a role in social anxiety [2].
Social anxiety is rarely caused by one thing. It is much more complex and worth understanding your individual experience in order to get the support you need.
What strategies exist to help manage and cope with social anxiety?
Here are a few practical steps that one can take to help manage symptoms of social anxiety and improve daily life:
- Practice self-compassion: Intentionally practice self-compassion to increase the ability to be understanding with oneself and curb negative self-talk [7].
- Pausing to practice mindfulness: Anxiety quickens our breathing, activates the fight/flight/freeze response, and increases negative thoughts. Mindfulness activities can slow our brain and body, leading to a more grounded perspective.
- Seeking professional support: Working with a mental health professional increases awareness and offers personalized strategies. Therapy can be a very helpful step in addressing social anxiety disorder. Engaging in therapy aids in cognitive restructuring, which assists in shifting how we view certain situations [8].
- Work on decreasing avoidance: Although avoiding a situation provides temporary relief, it can increase anxiety over time. Learning how to face the situation whenever possible allows you to learn how to work through your thoughts and emotions and manage anxiety.
Should you pursue a diagnosis for social anxiety disorder?
There are benefits to obtaining a diagnosis, but it is also important to determine if a diagnosis aligns with your mental health needs. The diagnostic process requires a sharing of emotions, thoughts, reactions and sometimes challenging life experiences. Making an informed decision about whether pursuing a diagnosis is the right choice for you is essential.
For most mental health services provided by a therapist, there is no requirement to have a social anxiety disorder diagnosis in order to receive support for social anxiety.
What are the benefits of getting a diagnosis for social anxiety disorder?
A diagnosis can sometimes be a helpful step in understanding and managing your experience.
Benefits of pursuing a diagnosis for social anxiety disorder include:
- Clearer understanding of symptoms: A diagnosis can provide validation by giving a name to the symptoms and by confirming that the anxiety extends beyond nerves or uncertainty.
- Accessing targeted supports: Cognitive behavioural therapy has the strongest research as an effective treatment for social anxiety disorder. For some, having a diagnosis provides a more in-depth understanding of symptoms and can act as a guide for creating an individualized therapy plan.
- Consideration of medications: The decision to use medication is a personal choice and should be discussed with your physician or psychiatrist. A diagnosis can assist you in facilitating the discussion with your health care provider about the possibility of medication for managing social anxiety symptoms.
What to expect in the social anxiety diagnostic process
A social anxiety disorder diagnosis involves getting a comprehensive understanding of your emotions and reactions to social situations. The diagnostic process does require readiness to discuss personal history, life circumstances, and traumatic life events. Honesty is essential as is the comfort and trust you have with your treatment provider. Other key components include:
- Assessment: An initial meeting with a qualified mental health professional (typically a psychologist or psychiatrist) to discuss symptoms, history and experiences.
- Clinical Interview: As follow up to the assessment, the clinical interview is an in-depth discussion delving more into thoughts, emotions, behaviours, and the impact of social anxiety on your life.
- Psychometric Testing: Some providers will also use standardized questionnaires, referred to as ‘psychometrics,’ as an additional tool of the assessment process. This often includes the Liebowitz Social Anxiety Scale (LSAS), one of the tools most widely used for measuring social anxiety severity [9]. The questionnaires are used to gather specific information about symptoms that cannot always be clearly expressed during the assessment or interview.
- Collaboration: The diagnostic process is a collaborative approach. While the assessing professional leads with questions and provides information, you are an active member in your healthcare journey. It is okay to express your thoughts, to ask questions, and to advocate if you disagree with something that is being proposed.
Note: All diagnoses are made based on specific criteria outlined in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5) [1]. The assessing professional compares your information and symptoms against a checklist of criteria outlined in the DSM-5. The criteria in DSM-5 for social anxiety disorder are related to thoughts, emotions, and reactions surrounding social settings [1].
Why does therapy help with social anxiety?
Therapy is one of the most well-supported avenues that helps with managing and overcoming social anxiety. Cognitive behavioural approaches, such as CBT, have the strongest evidence for effectiveness among therapy modalities [8]. Cognitive behavioural approaches help people identify and shift harmful default thought patterns, while gradually helping people face situations they might avoid. This work breaks the cycle of default anxiety patterns.
The therapist you work with matters just as much as what approach is used, with decades of research pointing to the therapeutic relationship itself as a significant, consistent contributor to how well therapy works, regardless of the specific approach used [10]. This is part of why Layla’s care coordinators focus on getting to know your needs, preferences and goals in order to match you with a therapist suited to you.
If you’re considering pursuing a diagnosis, Layla’s psychological assessment services can help guide that process.
Moving towards understanding
Social anxiety disorder can cause significant emotional and functional challenges in your life. However, with the right support and strategies, managing social anxiety and improving comfort in social settings is possible. This can enhance your social interactions, relationships, and understanding of yourself. If you believe that you have social anxiety, don't hesitate to seek professional help; you're not alone, and support is available to help you on your journey.
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Finding the right support
If you require immediate support, please reach out to a professional, or click here to explore our crisis and community resources. If you’d like to inquire about finding mental health support that’s right for you, a member of our team is happy to assist you. You can email us at contact@layla.care for any inquiries, or complete our intake form to reach out to a member of our care team.
If anxiety is something you're navigating and you'd like support, Layla can match you with a therapist experienced in supporting social anxiety.
Are you seeking a psychological assessment for social anxiety disorder?
Layla offers virtual psychological assessments for adults covering anxiety disorders including social anxiety disorder, ADHD, PTSD, mood disorders, BPD, somatic symptom disorder, illness anxiety disorder, and more. This diagnostic assessment is conducted by a registered psychologist. The assessment process includes a 90-minute video interview, psychometric testing, and a feedback session to review the results and discuss next steps. Virtual assessments for individuals located in Ontario and Alberta, with limited availability in Nova Scotia, British Columbia, New Brunswick, Quebec, Nunavut and Yukon.
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